Capturing Memories with Compassion
So, this spring break, we decided to take off and head up to Toronto, Canada for a quick trip filled with learning. I always love going to Canada; I used to spend my summers there, so it brings back so many great childhood memories, and I always enjoy sharing those with my kids. We visited the aquarium, stopped at some small falls we saw on our way, explored the science center, and even ventured into Jurassic World.
Let me tell you something that really made me think about seeing things from other people's points of view. We thought it'd be cool to check out the science center, thinking it wouldn't be too crowded since the weather was surprisingly nice for March. But, were we wrong! It was packed with kids and parents trying to make the most of their day. The place is huge, with tons of cool stuff to see.
By the end of the day, I notice everyone was getting pretty annoyed from waiting in lines and parents starting to let their kids run wild, cutting in line and not being mindful about others. I started to feel pretty irritated myself.
We were hanging out, tossing a ball around when this mom just snatched it from my kid without a second thought. I was shocked! I went over to talk to her, expecting some kind of explanation, but she just said it was her kid's turn and she didn't feel like sharing anymore. I was furious, to say the least. You know, when you're with kids, sometimes you just have to bite your tongue to avoid getting into an argument that could ruin the moment right? So, we just move on.
Later on, back at the hotel room, I couldn't shake it off. What if I had tried to see things from her side? Maybe she was just as fed up with the crowds and craziness as I was. Would I have reacted differently if I had thought about it that way at the time? Would she have reacted differently if I had approached her with compassion and understanding?
It made me realize how important empathy is. If we can step into other people's shoes, maybe we can make the world a little bit nicer for everyone.
I believe that every experience in life is an opportunity for personal and professional growth. As I build my business, I always emphasize the importance of creating a vibe that makes my clients feel at ease all the time. After all, being in front of the camera can already be overwhelming, right?
Let me share something about a session with you. When I schedule an hour for a shoot, it doesn't mean I'll be shooting non-stop. It means I'll take the time to get to know you and your family a little better. We'll create an atmosphere where you feel comfortable, and I'll make an effort to see things from your perspective.
I'll approach the session with compassion and empathy so that when you look at your photos, you'll see that they were created with love. They'll be a beautiful memory that you'll cherish forever.
